Mal Weeraratne is a British Pioneer In the Area of Emotional Release through bodywork, Who has studied in various accredited institutes under pioneers & experts earning him the accolade of being the first Certified Tantra Educator in the UK.
Mal has worked in the field of Human Sexuality since 1994, both in learning and treating over 3000 clients from all walks of life.
An Overview: How Tantric Temple Model Benefited Women and Men
| The problem | How Tantric temple model could help |
| 75% of women involved in prostitution started as children. | Tantric Temple Model looks to heal men and remove blockages, thus preventing them from abusing children |
| More than half of UK women in prostitution have been raped and/or seriously sexually assaulted. At least three quarters have been physically assaulted (Home Office 2004b).Whilst the rape within marriage and domestic violence figures against women in the UK are unclear as only a small percentage are reported.In January 2013, the Ministry of Justice (MoJ), Office for National Statistics (ONS) and Home Office released its first ever joint Official Statistics bulletin on sexual violence, entitled An Overview of Sexual Offending in England and Wales.It reported that:Approximately 85,000 women are raped on average in England and Wales every yearOver 400,000 women are sexually assaulted each year
1 in 5 women (aged 16 – 59) has experienced some form of sexual violence since the age of 16. |
According to a famous psychiatrist, Schrodinger, all men have the potential to be Rapists. Mal explains why he agrees with this rapist analogy,‘’I agree with this as most men do not know how to cultivate and process sexual energy within them, due to blockages of their energy channels due to emotions as a result of trauma. Not having the ability to control his sex drive could lead to rape and abuse. It is true when a woman says no, it could mean yes and at the same time when a woman says yes, it could mean no. This is due to women’s ever changing emotions like waves in the sea, unlike more stable and static emotions in most men. Therefor men need special communication skills, to understand woman. It’s always important to ask for permission and to get verbal approval before penetration and also to follow the woman’s sexual rhythm and not to lead her with the man’s sexual rhythm which a woman can get lost in it and lose her own rhythm. This is the time she wants a man to stop having sex and don’t know how to say No or Stop. So, most women get raped from this stage onwards as the man is doing something not for her pleasure but for his pleasure and ego totally unconsciously. To stop this rape most women fake the orgasm to encourage the man to have an ejaculation and orgasm by satisfying his ego. For this reason, It’s always safer to wait till women ask men to make love before penetration. To make this happen men must learn to arouse a woman and take time before penetration. It is woman’s nature to dress provocatively. This must not to be taken as a message to rape me, but it means take me I am the sexiest woman on this planet who could satisfy you. Men must grow spiritually to understand woman’s nature as they test men all the time with dress and giving confusing messages and signals such as Yes and No that they don’t mean. The one who pass the test will be invited to bed, where a woman can open up to be orgasmic and men must be patient for this invitation and not proceed otherwise.’’ |
| 68% of women in prostitution meet the criteria for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder in the same range as torture victims and combat veterans undergoing treatment (Ramsey et al 1993). | Women involved in prostitution will become damaged by the men that are using them, which is why the Tantrika in Mal’s model received healing treatments to prevent them becoming damaged and blocked. |
| The mortality rate for women in prostitution in London suffer is 12 times the national average (Home Office 2004a). | The Tantric Temple Model , provided a safe and healing environment. The Tantrika were there on a voluntary basis and were free from fear and oppression. |
| As many as 85% women in prostitution report physical abuse in the family, with 45% reporting familial sexual abuse | The statistics speak for themselves, many of the women damaged and hurt by abuse go on to suffer more abuse because they are unable find healing and re-build their lives. Women need to be able to access healing for the sexual abuse they have encountered and men need treatment to stop the abusive cycle. A Tantric Temple Model can provide a long term solution to these problems as oppose to prostitution that at best treats a symptom in a short term with no long term effect. |
| In the UK as many as 60 women involved in prostitution have been murdered in the last 10 years 80,000 women work in ‘on-street’ prostitution in the UK. The average age women become involved in prostitution being just 12yrs old | This highlights not only the risk that prostitutes face daily, but also highlights a general trend towards abuse and violence to women and minors. |
| The Jimmy Saville Case is just the tip of the iceberg…Police recorded over 23,000 sex offences against children aged under 18 years in England and Wales between April 2012 and March 2013.More than one in three children (34 per cent) who experienced contact sexual abuse by an adult did not tell anyone else about it.Four out of five children (82.7 per cent) who experienced contact sexual abuse from a peer did not tell anyone else about it | Whilst the Nation held their breath in horror as the extent of Jimmy Savile’s abuse of the young and vulnerable came to light; Mal Weeraratne has been troubled by what he calls an ‘epidemic of abuse in the UK’.Commander Peter Sindler said that Savile ‘spent every minute of every day’ thinking about his next sex attack’ He said the predator – who carried out a 54 years long campaign of sexual abuse across Britain – picked ‘the most vulnerable who were least likely to speak out against him’. Mal explains that this is far from extraordinary and is sadly happening across Britain every single day and is part of a culture and cycle of abuse that has to be stopped.Mal is a leading authority on how best to tackle the problem of child abuse, incest and domestic violence. |